Never-Ending Decisions

DECISIONS. Everybody has a hard time with making up their minds and making decisions. There are those kind of decisions which are very easy to make but some, well, you just have trouble doing or making them that to the extent you just wish there's no need for decision-making anymore. Make sense, right? But decisions are inevitable. It has become a part of our lives. It teaches us things that we just don't learn it by just reading books. We learn it from real-life situations. It is where we see the real thing.

We are afraid in making big decisions. Why? Cause we know we might hurt someone, lose someone and regret doing those decisions. But one reason why we are scared with deciding is because we are afraid of getting hurt. We despise pain so much. We are very much reluctant to sacrifice. Well, that's how reality works. We fall down, we get hurt, we screw up things, we experience and do bullshits in life. Like hello, this is LIFE. Make sense baby? But in the end, you'll just realize that it was worth making those decisions. That it was fine having to pass through those times or realities because it taught us for a lifetime. Maybe not all decisions were good and wise but that's the essence of decisions. Accept it if you made the wrong decision. Give yourself a break. Don't degrade yourself so much just because you made a wrong decision. Regrets doesn't make much of anything. It doesn't make any change. But wrong decisions correct us from our mistakes. Technically, decisions play a big and important role in our existence. 

Wrapping it up, we need to be wise in making decisions. Think outside the box. Consider a lot of factors. Weigh the pros and cons. Usually, that is why we come up with wrong decisions because we let our emotions control us. So hold your emotions. Ika nga nila, "Wag ka magdecide dahil masyado kang galit o dahil masyado kang masaya." You can always ask advices from other people. They can guide you. Help you see things. BUT NEVER LET THEM DECIDE FOR YOU. You still hold the answer. Still, you're the one who's gonna make that one, big final decision. :)


(This is from my Facebook. Just editted some parts. Pero I made it word by word ha. Plagiarism is not my game.)

Do not decide when you're too mad. Or too happy.

With Much Love,
Klassy Kleah